Today every person is running behind the success but not possible for everyone to grab it just because of no proper aim; incomplete work and unnecessary hard work in wrong direction; still everyone wants to become successful in life.Another thing is that, for every person meaning of success is different and multiple people thinks that to be successful means to earn lot of money, name and fame, should have businesses everywhere, lump-sum property, bigger and luxurious cars etc. But friends actually the success means to achieve a completion of work that finally results in happiness and gives a feeling of achievement. Even if you have decide to do any work whether it’s simple or tough, it’s completion is your success only; but here the matter of feeling success or the happiness of success directly depends on the toughness of the decided task and the number of efforts you apply to complete/achieve it. The tougher would be the task, more efforts and hard work need to be applied and more would be the happiness of success you will feel while achieving it. There are many live examples of the famous personalities who are successful in their life; if you want to be successful in your life like them, then you don’t need to copy them, but the things that are mean to learn from them are their qualities. Those qualities are so simple that a successful person persists in his lifestyle and we should also adopt them, so, the simple qualities to become successful in life are:
1) Determination and Dedication: If you have decided to complete a certain task or work then you should always keep faith in yourself that you will complete it despite of thinking about the upcoming problems. Keep faith in yourself that you are good problem solver, you will arrange the solutions any-how; keep trying with different style of efforts, gain more knowledge and experience if requires to complete the task with only a single thought in mind of completing the task. A proper dedication leads you towards the hard work and the hard work always pays you back, it never goes in vein. It’s the real mantra for being successful in life.
2) Never left the task incomplete and be independent: If you have taken any work in hand then never left the task incomplete or mid of the path, whether it’s tough or requires any amount of hard work. Try to find various numbers of solutions to the problem despite of thinking to leave it incomplete. Generally we all are habitual of leaving a task if its consuming a huge amount of brain, requires too much hard work and giving pain; this further results in incompletion of the task i.e. ultimately fails. We won’t learn winning until we drop off this bad habit of leaving a task incomplete or we can say habit of failure. Also remember to not depend on others to complete your own tasks; it’s the another mantra of being successful in life.
3) Time management: Be a good time manager means you have to complete the task in a dedicated time slot because time never takes halt for anyone as time is nobody’s relative. Take time also as a goal that you have to complete the task in a certain amount of time as well as whatever the task you choses to do, start doing it right now if possible because it will save your time to use in future otherwise the spent current time you have to borrow it from tomorrow and tomorrow never comes (according to a great phrase).Whatever tasks you will keep pending will ultimately increase work load on future that won’t let you enjoy the future opportunities because you will be going to find yourself in completing the tasks only. So, always complete your task by today itself and it’s the third mantra from the ways to be successful in life.
4) Do not think of Failure: The first thing that ever comes in mind is the negative aspects and impacts of the task which are the super-hurdles of your mission. If you decided a task, then that is the only correct time for beginning the task because “the time gap between the task choosing and applying action” is directly proportional to “the negativity in mind related to that task”.And as you started taking action on your work be positive and never think of results until you reach nearer to it, because whatever would be the result it always give experience and knowledge and steps you.
5) Be a Good Listener: You must be a good listener means you must listen carefully about all the aspects from everyone whatever they are saying because this will create a vast area to think about a certain situation also will help you to determine that what are you listening is related to it or not worth according to the topic. A good listener always has a broader mind to observe each aspect of a problem. Even though being calm and listening helps in improving listening capability and helps to maintain peace of mind and these are also some of the good tips to be successful in life.
6) Do not repeat the mistakes: While you are applying efforts to complete a job you must remember your mistakes and also do remember not to repeat them. And also the mistakes you did in completing previous work helps you by saving a lot of time in achieving the next targets. Mistakes gives you experience and the next level of thinking about the tough problems and also increases the percentage of risk-taking capability with a numerous of calculations to recover that you spent to achieve a certain platform.
7) Always read books: The phrase “Books are the good friend of a person” is really correct. Yes the book gives knowledge as well as various solutions of problems and we must read a book daily at-least 30 minutes. Books gives the written suggestions of the problems by the one who already faced similar kind of issue also it helps in identifying the actual problem and method of checking each and everything step by step. Books having answers of almost each and every question; we just need to select the right one to gain the solution earlier else books never detriment you; but choosing a right book will lead you towards the success more in lesser time. You can select any of the books of your interest and it also helps in improving the human personality as well as it will enhance you to be successful in life.